Well, beyond moving past all of this, isn't that something you should discover for yourself?
You know what is logically the way forward. But implementing those steps should be by your own design.
For example, if you could envision ways to continue setting yourself apart from this man, how would that look like to you? What have you noticed that brings you an independent joy, living life separately as you are now from all of this? Which associations have you made that man would have had no chance in holding any monopoly over?
When you consider moving forward, what do you think would be a way to spitefully resist those initial and permanent expectations that have been set for yourself? And I suppose to continue to keep asking for help when you are stuck, as you are now, hm?
However, some advice on actions from myself would be to treasure what you have gained yourself. Continue to indulge what you have found to have enjoyed; to have liked, to have cherished.
And here is something else you should listen to right now:
Rise to your feet instead of sitting down in what's holding you back. How's that sound for a start? And if the rest sounds too overwhelming...why not tackle each single aspect one at a time?
[ They stand up right after that, and then look towards him expectantly, and well, Turo's hands are like bloodied, so...that is about all that they for the moment. ]
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Well, beyond moving past all of this, isn't that something you should discover for yourself?
You know what is logically the way forward. But implementing those steps should be by your own design.
For example, if you could envision ways to continue setting yourself apart from this man, how would that look like to you? What have you noticed that brings you an independent joy, living life separately as you are now from all of this? Which associations have you made that man would have had no chance in holding any monopoly over?
When you consider moving forward, what do you think would be a way to spitefully resist those initial and permanent expectations that have been set for yourself? And I suppose to continue to keep asking for help when you are stuck, as you are now, hm?
However, some advice on actions from myself would be to treasure what you have gained yourself. Continue to indulge what you have found to have enjoyed; to have liked, to have cherished.
And here is something else you should listen to right now:
Rise to your feet instead of sitting down in what's holding you back. How's that sound for a start? And if the rest sounds too overwhelming...why not tackle each single aspect one at a time?
[ They stand up right after that, and then look towards him expectantly, and well, Turo's hands are like bloodied, so...that is about all that they for the moment. ]